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21 May 2010

Chinese Sex Fiend Forced to Wear Fake Beard for Orgies

Sexual attitudes in China have changed over the last few decades -- a woman was sentenced to death in the early 1980s for the "crime" of participating in secret dance parties.
Chinese attitudes toward sex have changed dramatically during the last 20 years, said sociologist Li Yinhe, China's most prominent sex expert.

Even a generation ago, holding hands and kissing in public were virtually unheard of. These days, studies indicate that 60 to 70 per cent of Chinese have had sex before marriage, up from 15 per cent in 1989._ _NZHerald
But there are limits to how far China's communist leaders are willing to bend to the concept of "private freedom." Ma Yaohai was arrested, convicted, and sentenced to 3 years in prison for organising private orgies in Nanjing, China. Ma was a computer science professor at the Nanjing University of Technology, who used a computer website to organise group sex parties for swingers.

Most Chinese do not approve of Ma's activities, but they do not feel that Ma should be sent to prison for his private sexual behaviour.
They were members of a modern-day swingers' club in China, where people met online and then gathered in private homes or hotels for group sex parties involving dozens of men and women.

But when officials charged Ma Yaohai, 53, with "group licentiousness" the case touched off huge public interest with titillating details and sparked a deeper debate about sexual freedom in a nation that is trying to reshape its own modern morality.

Ma said his decision to join the swingers was voluntary. "Marriage is like water. You have to drink it. Swinging is like a cup of wine. You can drink it if you like. If you don't like it, don't drink it," he said.

In arguing his activities involved consenting adults meeting in nonpublic places, Ma's defiance seemed to strike a chord in an era of relative sexual freedom, where extramarital affairs and prostitution are common - drawing support from those who believe the Chinese government should stay out of the bedroom.

Entering the court at the start of the two-day trial on April 7, he blurted out: "How can I disturb social order? What happens in my house is a private matter." _NZHerald
Ma is planning to appeal his 3 year sentence. But even should he be released from the smaller prison where he is being held, he would only be released into the larger prison commonly known as "China."

The ugly fake beard? There is no accounting for culture.

It seems as if today's China is custom-made for teledildonics and virtual sex.

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09 May 2010

Obama Stimulates Mom Prostitute Business

As economic conditions continue to deteriorate, cash-strapped moms are forced to make difficult decisions. How will she provide for her children -- provide food, clothing, schooling, and keep a roof over their heads? Sometimes hard compromises are necessary.
Prostitutes who also happen to be mothers face multiple dilemmas. Being proud of your job as a sex worker doesn’t always mean being open about it. Ruth Morgan Thomas, a founder of the Scottish Prostitutes Education Project, worked in an Edinburgh massage parlor while her daughter Tara was an infant. “I’ve never had any help from Tara’s father,” she says, “and I left him when she was 2 and a half.” Later, she worked as an escort, and then, not at all abashed about her profession, traveled to Japan to represent sex workers at an AIDS conference.

...Claudia waited until she was out of the business to have her first child, who is now 18. “I do wonder if she’s starting to put two and two together and coming up with something that resembles four, but I still haven’t told her. My youngest is 8, and he’s just too young to even be thinking about such things.” A former London escort who also worked on the street, she now lives in the northeastern U.K. and blogs as “Claudia,” but doesn’t discuss it with her children.
Last year, for about six months, she worked in phone sex. “My housing costs are very high, and I quite like talking dirty,” she says. “I worked when the kids were at their dad’s house. I didn’t want anyone to find out.”
What made her quit? “One evening, my oldest came home unexpectedly. I had to fake an orgasm very quickly under the duvet. And the work was very badly paid.”

...Abby, a 33-year-old sex worker with a 10-year-old son, lives in Adelaide, Australia, and works part-time in the nearby mining town of Whyalla, where she sees a mix of regulars and new customers obtained through a local ad. “I work there one full weekend every month when my son’s visiting his father,” she says, “plus one day a week at a friend’s cottage in Adelaide when he’s in school.” Her ex-husband, who contributes $120 a month child support, doesn’t know how she supports her household. Or perhaps he doesn’t want to.

...Veronica Monet experienced such a battle when she was married with two stepchildren.
“At that point in my career, I was working three days a week as a middle-class escort, seeing people by the hour,” she says. “I paid half of my husband’s child support, took care of their medical expenses, vacations—many of the finer things in life.” _TDB
Times are hard all over, thanks to the clowns that people have elected to run things. And yet people somehow manage to adapt to difficult circumstances. One of the latent resources that a family can sometimes call upon in extremis, is the oft-suppressed sexuality of the mom.

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04 May 2010

Can Science Help Premature Ejaculators?

Priligy (Dapoxetine) is an antidepressant that is being marketed in Europe by Janssen-Cilag to treat premature ejaculation.
Originally marketed as an antidepressant, Priligy is a short-acting selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor that works by altering the levels of serotonin - the hormone responsible for ejaculation - in the brain to give men a greater degree of control, and trials in more than 6,000 patients showed that it can increase the time to ejaculation by a factor of three.
Many drug analysts expect Priligy to eventually rival Viagra in sales and social impact. In the case of Priligy, the female partner can benefit as much as or more than the male.
Priligy which is owned by one of Johnson & Johnson’s subsidiaries namely the ALZA Corporation has received full approval as a prescription medication in many European countries including the UK. It continues to be tested for full approval by the Food & Drug Administration of America. _ukmedix

No one really knows how long a man should last before he comes. Science cannot answer that question, because the answer changes for each session of love-making. Sometimes, a woman would just like for the man to get it over with, already. Other times, when she is particularly receptive, she would like for the peak experience to go on and on . . . .

It is not optimal to make everything a medical problem, but at least with reliable drugs -- such as are becoming available for sexual dysfunctions -- a person has a ready means of getting help.

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